3 Ways Women Can Take Control In The Bedroom (and it’s not what you think)

January 27, 20163 Minutes

There is more to sex appeal than just measurements. I don’t need a bedroom to prove my womanliness. I can […]

There is more to sex appeal than just measurements. I don’t need a bedroom to prove my womanliness. I can convey just as much sex appeal, 
picking apples off a tree or standing in the rain.

~ Audrey Hepburn


Everyone loves a confident woman. There’s nothing sexier than a woman who holds her head up high and knows what she wants in life (and in the bedroom). A confident woman is a woman who knows who she is, takes control and makes things happen. Being confident often leads to knowing how and when to take control in the bedroom… but taking control in the bedroom isn’t just about getting on top and unleashing a wild woman, it’s a whole lot more than that. Which leads me to 3 ways you can take control and boost your sex life in more ways than one.


#1 Let your partner know when you’re in the mood

There’s nothing sexier than hearing that your partner is thinking about (and desiring) sex…especially when it’s at an unusual time of the day. Couples often get stuck in the routine of having sex when they go to bed, but reality is that we can feel turned on at all different times of the day. Let your partner know when you feel turned on. Take control and get what you want, when you want it!


#2 Lose yourself in pleasure

Learn to let go and completely surrender to the experience of pleasure. Being with a woman who immerses herself in sexual pleasure and lets go of the outside world is hot! When you let go, you let your partner see hidden parts of you that only they will see…this is extremely erotic and a huge turn-on.


#3 Tell your partner what you like

Don’t be afraid to be vocal with what you do and don’t enjoy. Being with a woman who can tell you what she wants while having sex shows that she is confident and happy with who she is. A confident woman knows her body, and knows what feels good, and isn’t afraid to get that (and the only way you’ll get that is by telling your partner).